You should have heard a lot of jokes and anecdotes about climaxing too soon. However, you should understand that in real life premature ejaculation (PE) is a serious issue. It’s not a secret that thousands of men ejaculate faster than they or their girls would love to. And the first thing you feel is frustration. In most case, fast ejaculation is not a symptom of any sexual dysfunction. You could be tired, or have a lot of work, or have no mood that day. But in 30% such men suffer from premature ejaculation. And this is a serious dysfunction that can affect your sex life.
Every 3rd Man with PE
Don’t think that it is a final estimation. A real number can be higher as not all men would like to share this problem with others. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common dysfunctions among guys and does not hit only men of the certain age. It does not matter how long and how often you have sex.
15 to 60 Seconds to Enjoy
You might have heard a lot of fantastic stories about long-lasting sex, or sleepless nights, or day-long sexual intercourses. Don’t believe it and stay calm! The truth is that average intercourse lasts two to five minutes before a man ejaculates. But for men, suffering from PE, this is the entirety. Ordinary sex with such a man lasts less than a minute – 15 to 60 seconds.
In severe cases, men can expel their semen even before they penetrate their penises into women’s vaginas. Any direct stimulation can end up with the climax. This is the most embarrassing moments in your sexual relations.
When you have premature ejaculation, you can do nothing with it. You can’t control your body, you can’t keep your sperm inside, and you can’t delay your ejaculation. Those 1 to 60 seconds of happiness is all they can count for.
2 Chemical Neurotransmitters
In most cases, early ejaculation does not have an exact cause. Over years of the practice, doctors have suggested the range of different reasons that could result in such a condition. They include:
- psychological problems (guilt, anxiety, and depression);
- high penile sensitivity;
- lack of sexual experience;
- hormonal imbalance;
- bad masturbation or others.
We can continue searching while a key cause of early ejaculation is directly associated with two chemical neurotransmitters. A new study says that PE can be a particular congenital disability. In other words, this is a condition you are born with. Scientists have discovered some links between early ejaculation and the nervous system. Some changes in two neurotransmitters may cause this dysfunction as our nervous system relies upon these two chemical messengers to control body functions.
Up to 3 Minutes to Enjoy
These scientific discoveries have triggered new treatment method that promises to increase sexual performance by several times. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) antidepressants can enhance the production of the neurotransmitter serotonin, delaying ejaculations. If you take SSRIs in low doses (Paxil), you will be able to get control over your PE. Dapoxetine is being marketed as a new SSRI designed specifically to combat early ejaculation. In contrast to regular SSRIs, it is short-acting, and you can take it whenever you need – but an hour before your sexual activity (like Viagra before sex).
An anesthetic spray formulated by researchers is another product that can help reduce PE. It is PSD502 or Topical Eutectic Mixture for Premature Ejaculation (TEMPE). It contains two numbing ingredients – lidocaine and prilocaine in aerosol form. You should spray it on your penis before sex and enjoy your sexual intercourse up to three hours. Yes, it promises to prolong your satisfaction by 12 times.
Nowadays, neither Dapoxetine nor TEMPE is available in the USA. But they should be submitted for the FDA approval soon.
There are a lot of similar pharmaceutical methods that can help you, but they can’t cure PE. There is no quick fix, but these medications can delay your ejaculations and prolong your sexual performance. Thus, this will boost your self-confidence and satisfy both you and your partner.
You can try anti-premature ejaculation supplements, for example, Climinax. It will help you to last longer in bed.
To gain the heights in bed, you can learn new tricks how to make your woman experience orgasm. Thus, your hands, fingers, or tongue may help you. You are also recommended trying perpendicular sex positions, stimulating the top side of your penis, rather than its sensitive underside.
SSRIs, regular communication with your partner, good hand skills, patience, and positive mood, will shot the bolt. Enjoy fantastic sex!